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Monday, February 13, 2012

Perfumistas and Their Loved Ones

By Marla, the Nerd Girl

OK. I rave about new batches of vetiver from wherever. It’s organic! It’s an SCO2! I love Norlimbanol. I hate Safraleine. I wear combinations of molecules that are so intense, so bizarre, that I occasionally offend hyenas (my least favorite sentient being).

It’s Valentine’s Day this week. Maybe I should give my partner the best gift I can think of…a day off the olfactory wheel??

My DH loves strange odors and actually likes beta testing my peculiar creations, and dutifully sniffs the additions to my ever-expanding Scent Library. He’s a Nerd Guy. He loves Music. So I listen to his new Arabo-andalusian rebab recording, rave about the new oud solos he’s found (yes, it’s a lute-like instrument as well as a perfume), and listen to him playing the shakuhachi on weekends. I love it! I can barely play 3 bars on my recorder, so he’s my hero. He says he’s learned a lot about the least-used sense from me (olfaction). OK, so he hates Angel. Life goes on. I hate Puerto Rican Rap. We continue. We learn.

How does your perfumistahood meld with your key relationships?? Will you give the people you love most a scented, or unscented, gift this Valentine’s Day?

8 comments:

  1. Unscented for them, but scented for me! (I bought myself perfume for Valentine's day. :)

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  2. I adore this post, Marla! How lovely to hear about how the two of you dealing with your respective hobbies.
    For Valentine's Day I will wear a perfume my husband loves (Amouage Reflection) and refrain from constantly making him smell something "although it is all the same anyway". And I will hope for a fragrant gift that won't wilt in a few days... :)

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  3. Anonymous6:32 AM EST

    Diana,
    "Unscented for them, but scented for me!" That sounds like the perfect solution!
    -Marla

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  4. Anonymous6:33 AM EST

    Olfactoria,
    Amouage sounds like a good idea to me anyday, but especially for Valentine's. I think I might go for Lyric....
    -Marla

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  5. Anonymous7:56 AM EST

    I might go for Gold on Valentine's Day, my sweetie really likes it and he bought it for me. Or I might wear No. 5 with a dab of Untitled No. 8 to take it back to it's vintage roots. I will refrain from asking him to wear the Chanel Egoiste Platinum I bought HIM. He ain't a scents kinda guy and will only wear it occasionally if I beg him. I don't understand, when he walks by me wearing it, I give myself whiplash following the scent, he wears it sooooo well. Once we were in the supermarket together and parted ways to find separate items. I smelled this amazing "man smell" and again head whips around to find it's MY man! Some moments can't beat. I guess I shouldn't complain, I seldom have to worry that our "fumes" will compete, he's happy to let me have the playing field all to myself!

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  6. Anonymous9:22 AM EST

    Anonymous,
    Gold is a lovely thing, isn't it? And that's great you're able to track your sweetie with something so delightful!
    -Marla

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  7. My husband is my test bunny; he samples all my fragrance creations; some are great (the ones in my etsy shop) and some , well I rather not talk about those. He is a great sport too.

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  8. Anonymous4:05 PM EST

    Dear Jane,
    It's those "I'd rather not talk about those..." that point us in the direction of our successes! At least, that's what we tell our partners, right?? ;-)
    -Marla

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